Caddie- You are definately not a failure! It is hard sometimes isn't it? I guess we all parent in different ways and just have to do whatever suits our own situations are that time.

HelenP- Glad to hear you are working on things, hope it all falls in to place quickly, just take each day at a time.

Kell- I got all my u/s on DVD, at the place I went to they did charge extra $10 for the first one and then extra $20 at the 19 week scan but worth having. Let the u/s person know at the start you want to know the sex if they can tell you even if its not 100% they could tell you what % its looking like.

Just had mums group over, gets quite hectic now that they're all walking/ running. I think back to when we used to lie them in a circle on there tummys and they wouldn't move, now look at them!