Shell - how scary for you!!! Hugs to you and Ash - not a fun day. DH will be back and forward to South Africa for the rest of the year - 6 weeks on - 2 weeks off!!

Ambz - You sound like you are doing a fantastic job, I can't imagine how hard it must be with two. All the controlled crying/comforting books say to do it from 6 months because a baby doesn't learn from it any younger, follow your heart, if something feels wrong don't do it, you are the mum and know best.

Speak tomorrow
Laurin
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