thanks for your help jaz
i think you're exactly right about him waking up without me and freaking out.ijust don't know what else to do.
i have a happy baby dummy,might pull it out of the cupboard again.
i guess i'm not doing anything too drastic atm cos i think he might still be a bit sick so this isn't helping the situation.
i'mjust at wits end. he can't sleepin my arms forever.
dp will never pay for a baby whisperer.....