Of course he gets it all from Arte! LOL.

Cindy, I really hope that you don't have anymore episodes like that hun, it must be draining both physically and emotionally for you

G, I think maybe just this once you need to take the high road because it gives her nothing to complain about kwim? If it filters back via the grapevine, then it filters back and there's nothing you can do about that, but she can't ever say that you deliberately did it kwim?