willow- that would be incredibly frustrating! Tall gates do sound like they may help.

Well we are beginning to get sleep in her cot! 3hrs each night for two nights, so its a start. takes a bit of patting and reassuring for about 20min but then she is ok. Last night she woke after 3hrs and was fussing so brought her into bed with me where she slept for another 4hrs.. so 7 all up 7pm-2am, then feed (thankfully!! I was so full) then i tried for about 30min to resettle in cot but no luck.. so back in bed with us til 7am. Not bad effort