I do what I can with one hand but some stuff you just can't lol well I can't anyway. Unfortunately not all the big people in my house have the same idea of cleaning or tidying as me nor do they worry about living in chaos and I get sick of asking, maybe I need to become a nagger.

Ouch on the gumming and pinching!

I guess it could be breast refusal, I haven't really dealt with that before so not sure how it presents. So would they tell you they are hungry then crack it and refuse? It seems to be after she gets the let down too