No killing Lans

Good idea about the mothers group. I had one with a similar age gap for Darcy (DD1) and TBH you're all there for the same reasons so it really doesn't matter.
Solids will be about 6months. They keep moving the recommended guidelines but I did that with the other kids and so far we've had no allergies, intolerances bar a bit of peanut for Nate which he grew out of, no asthma, ear troubles etc. So basically that worked for us. I've only ever done BLS though. My kids didn't do baby food no matter how much I persisted.