rooey - only you know your limits hun! you need to do whats best for you and indy. i agree with rach tho. is there anywhere you can go for a few days to think?
rach - so sorry about your dog good luck in the tww!
afm, i have been nauseaus on and off for last couple of days. so much so i dont want to eat and if i do it needs to be bland or else i feel so sick! we had gastro with hamish last week so i dont know if its just a small bug going on or not. i hope not. i hate gastro
Oh HC, I'm sorry you're going through such a horrible time with your DP. Make sure you do what's best for you and your lil man
Teresa, I hope it's not gastro for you hun, it's so horrible to have. Take it easy hun xox
Rach, sorry to hear about your dog. GL in your TWW, I haope you've caught that eggie!
Not much to report here, still doing my acupuncture and hopefully my AF comes soon so we can start the TTC thing again. Wee man is good, will be putting him into crache soon, that will be fun and games !!
gah! the nausea has returned i have no idea what is going on. i am 7dpo and now i am starting to think i might be UTD i wish it was next week already so i knew. anyone else had nausea start a few days po then to find out they are UTD? had a chat with DH last night and he doesnt even know if he wants another one. rather confused here right now
Yesterday he came over and basically admitted everything was his fault and he said he needed to get help dealing with his anger. I think he expected me to go back to him because when I made it clear I wasn't going to he got quite nasty and tried to take Indy. Mum told him to go and he stormed off.
He called back and was all apologetic again, now he is saying he will get help but I'll believe it when I see it.
Big hugs HC, wish all this crap wasn't happening to you guys You're right to stand your ground hun, if he says he's going to get help that's great, but you'll need to see proof first. I hope he's committed to really giving it a crack.
Teresa, I was actually wondering if you could possibly be UTD, but I know where you and your hubby stand on the subject so I didn't say it, hehe. BUT, remember hun, if it's meant to be it's meant to be, baby comes when he/she wants to come Will be stalking your news. And BTW, I have heard plenty of times where people weren't ready or not even sure if they wanted a baby or another baby, and then when the pg was confirmed, they got all excited...hope you get the outcome you want hun xox
miss b - i just spoke to a friend of mine who said i might be too. its so hard. i hated the whole tww when we were trying and now its just worse coz i dont know whats happening. i am sure if i am we would get excited its just right now i cant see myself being happy. i have noticed that my (.)(.) are bigger, sore but thats normal, and i noticed this morning they are more veiny. i hope its my imagination running wild. will definately have a chat with DH about it tonight tho.
Sorry you are dealing with this ATM HC. Be strong babe and take all the time you need xx
Maybe Teresa! I hope you get the outcome that you want whatever it may be.
I'm 10dpo today and had an acupuncture this morning to protect a pregnancy so hopefully there is one here to protect. Still just have to wait and see. Hate waiting, but I am actually learning to be patient and let be what will be - shock horror!
rooey - how r u today? i really hope things improve for you!
rach - fingers crossed you got that eggie!
afm, we decided to let things happen if they do happen. i had a chat with DH last night and like me he is concerned about me having another baby here due to it being a country town and with my history, it probably not being appropriate for me to have a baby. having said that, if i am UTD now, there is pretty much nothing we can do about it. so we are just going to wait and see what the next week brings. i am at work for the next 3 days so that will keep my mind occupied until the weekend comes! lol. i noticed the veins more prominent on the milk machines today and very prominent running down either side of the abdomen! could be my mind playing tricks on me tho. sorry if i am a bit self obsessed at the moment.
Rooey - I hope you are ok. What a horrible situation to be in. Dh and I were fighting quite a bit a few weeks ago and if I had family nearby, I probably would have left for a while. It's good that he can see he needs to get som help. It's really easy to get caught up in moment.
Rach - oh no that's terrible about your dog. How old is it? Our dog is driving me crazy. He chews up Angus's toys and pushes him over and jumps up on everyone. He will be one next month, so I'm hoping things will settle down. We also take him to obedience training and the dog park to help socialise him with other dogs/people. I forget where you live, but a friend of mine uses a service called Bark Busters. It's expensive up front, but then you can call them back anytime free of charge. My friends dog was showing aggression to other dogs, and whatever they told her, she was quite happy with them.
Teresa - The veins and stuff do sound like you might be pg. when I was tcc and on progesterone pessaris, it made that happen too, even before our embryo was transferred, so you could just have high progesterone too. I didn't have nausea straight away - my first sign this time was having a numb feeling in my legs and arms, like pins and needles. I think all the blood was going to my abdomen. I hope it turns out well whatever happens. Is it possible for you to have the baby in Canberra somehow? A friend from play group had a prem baby last time and now she is in some special program at the Canberra hospital. Of coarse if you went into labour they wouldn't have time to transfer you, but they might have some reciprocal arrangement? I'll find out the program my friend is in - Wagga hospital might have one too?
AFM - we just got back from a week in NZ, which was really great. Angus got to feed chickens, sheep, horses and pat day old calves. We also went on buses, planes, ferries and saw helicopters and steam trains. Angus met lots of his family over there and got spoiled. Then today I had my glucose test and midwife appointment. Hopefully all is good with the clucose test, because I had been eating so much sugar. I was 5kg heavier before getting pregnant this tim than last, but I am almost the same weight I was when I had Angus at 15 days over! I'm 26 weeks today and have put on around 12 kgs...
Sounds really promising Teresa! I'm gonna be very excited for you guys if you get a BFP!!
Rach, ooh I'm keeping my fingers crossed for you also, maybe you and Teresa will be in the same belly buddy group again!
HC, I hope you're OK hun. I often think of you and wish that you didn't have to go through this
Nat, wow you're 26 weeks already! I remember for me after 30 weeks time just flew.
AFM ladies, I got an intuitive healing done last Sunday (something my acupuncture lady recommended) and it was great. The lady there said to me that I had a lot of fear and grief in my belly, so she got rid of it. She also said that the healing will bring on my AF, and BAM!!! it arrived the very next day So right now it's really heavy bleeding here and I'm crampy as hell, but thank goodness it's here. Now I have to wait till next AF to start my TTC cycle.
And sheree and Jess! How funny would that be! Here's hoping.
That's awesome your healing worked so quickly.
I admit I was a bit skeptical about acupuncture but took the "can't hurt" approach and I am floored how well it is working for me.
It has changed my whole personality. I was hormonal and moody and unbalanced and horrible to be around and it has settled everything right back down and also put me straight back on track in my cycle. Unreal. Hope it also helps stop another m/c. Time will tell
Hang on, am I missing something? lol. I knew Jess was pg but Sheree as well? Yay!!!!!!!! How exciting! Congrats Sheree OMG, there could be a whole new belly buddy group of you guys! Fingers and toes crossed for those in the 2WW.
As for the acupuncture, I agree Rach, it has changed my whole personality as well. I was so stressed and on edge all the time lately but with the needles and the herbs, I'm like, soooooooo relaxed and not fussed with all the small stuff (and not as much with the big stuff). Hope it works for both of us hun!!
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good luck in the tww!
You're right to stand your ground hun, if he says he's going to get help that's great, but you'll need to see proof first. I hope he's committed to really giving it a crack.
So right now it's really heavy bleeding here and I'm crampy as hell, but thank goodness it's here. Now I have to wait till next AF to start my TTC cycle.
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