Sarah, she is beautiful. : )
As for the tubal, possibly listen to them... and then make your own decision. I have a girlfriend who had her kids very young, 15,17 and 19. She now has given birth to a girl... 12 years later. If you have doubts now, let it rest. People can have their opinions but ultimately it lies with you. I know social work and how it goes... so go, listen and then leave. You are the only one that can make that choice, regardless of what they tell you! xx