Thanks girls.Just feel like I'm second guessing myself all the time.

Have tried the dummyt but Isla generally refuses it. On occassion she will take it so we will persist with offering it.

We wrap her for sleeps. Although our technique needs improving. Double wrapping seems to help.

She could have silent reflux - has only ever thrown up once, constantly has the hiccups, wakes ubruptly as though in pain and in generally just wants to be held and feed - well she is a growing girls - 2cm growth in the first 2 weeks - crikey.

It helps to hear what other bubs are doing. Mrs P, Isla and Dylan seem to have similar sleeping patterns. Perhaps my expectations of her and us have been too high.

Bellany - Feeling your pain hun re lack of sleep and Dh's return to work

Kass - I dont know how you juggle so much - superwoman! I'm anxious with just 1 kid. Youre doing amazingly.

Mrs P - How did the clinic app go? Glad your healing well. I know what you mean about the wind issue. Thatt has only just resolved for me although the scares / stitches are still causing me grief.

Does anyone else feel guilty about how the broken sleep effects your DH / DP? Mine is looking run down and aweful. I feel terrible about it. Perhaps I'mputting unrealistic expectations on myself again.