Teirae sounds like that cry in the shower is just what you needed! Sometimes it helps to make things seem better ;-) glad your dh is supportive, it helps to be able to hand them over for a bit of a break!
As for mch nurses I have been lucky and mine is just lovely and it's nice to have had the same one with all three kids :-) you def have to pick and choose what you want them to know and take their advice, sometimes its good ;-) doesn't always work for everybody so you need to tweak it to best suit you :-)
All good here with little guy putting on 380gms in a week! It's ds1 birthday today and he is turning four! Somehow in the chaos I managed to make cupcakes, hedgehog and a birthday cake! Can't believe my little guy is four already :-( they really do grow too fast!! Better go as everyone is coming over for afternoon tea!!