Jeez Buzzie I can't imagine how awful that must have been for you. I can't believe he didn't even tell his parents. I suppose David hasn't told his family, I don't even know if he knows for certain himself anyway. The hardest thing is imagining Isaac when he's older wanting to know about his father. That is going to be so hard but I'll be honest with him as difficult as that will be.
Luckily I have some photos of David, we went to the same friends costume party at Halloween so I've got my friends pics from there. Unfortunately he is wearing only trousers and a bow tie (classy, I know - I have no idea what he was supposed to be) so not really appropriate to show a child. I also have some that I copied from facebook of him performing with his dance troupe and also a couple of him with friends.

I dreamfed Isaac for the first time last night, he had gone to sleep at 8:30, I gave him a feed in his sleep at about 10:30 then he slept until after 2am! It was about 6 hours sleep all up. Then he woke at 5 then 8:30 as usual.

edit: I've had the most awful week, but tonight after reading all the beautiful nice comments on my 365 photo of Isaac, I logged on here to see I've been RAK'd.. so heartwarming I just want to hug whoever it was, it was another thing that made me cry but in a very very good way.