Hey G! I think you have to work out whether you love the idea of another baby or the reality of another baby. For me, I am still totally in love with the idea of another one, but definitely not the reality. As time goes on it gets easier to deal with, but never goes away fully and I'm starting to think that it's normal to feel like that.

As for day sleeps, Alister has gone back to having one 5 days out of 7 and will sleep up to 3hrs! Some kids will have dropped it by now and other will still have one for a long time yet. From memory the girls had dropped theirs by about 2.5yrs-ish and Lindsay was well over 3, probably closer to 4 because I remember that when I had Paige I could get all 3 of them to have a sleep at the same time most of the time and thinking it was awesome because I could sleep and we did that for several months.