Shell - sorry forgot the woohoo for the big bed.

Kaz - yeah DH is convinced that his sister's parenting style is the way to go, but what he forgets is that DS is not a 8pm going to bed baby and that I'm not her and I have a different style. When she was visiting a few weeks ago, DH accused me of yelling at DS, so then I raised my voice and said "no this is shouting" then the SIL was saying that I shouldn't be 'yelling' to tell her son off, and I wasn't yelling, I just spoke normally and a little sternly (he was shoving another kid), so I just adopted her parenting style which is to say no about five times and hope the kid gets sidetracked..