Bella - Luckily we haven't had any issues with DTD so can't really offer any useful advice relating to issues after pregnancy (I think having a C-Section helped in that regard), however I have had stinging/soreness before after not DTD for a while (I used to go with work overseas for 6-8weeks at a time sometimes) - to get over it we just kept trying and now just try to DTD as regular as possible because I know if leave it a while is less enjoyable. Luckily CJ is being an excellent little night sleeper so we are pretty much back to how it was pre-pregnancy.

Leading me to my question - CJ the past four nights has slept 8:30 ish till 7:30 with no wake up, so her last feed starts at around 7:45 - so that is almost 12 hours between feeds. Do you think this is ok - seems a long time at 9 weeks (At 32 I can't go 12 hours without food!) should I be waking her for a feed at 10:30pm or something. I wasn't too worried about this but this morning she did a wee on the change table and was a bit yellow, the rest of the day it is clear as before, but her urine is smelling more urine like recently (I know friends with older babies said this happens). She is her happy normal self, but only really catnaps in the daytime. In the early evening she is cluster feeding so she is drinking plenty before her mega long sleep.

I am trying some different techniques to try and get her to have proper sleeps in the day - but they just seem to make her upset - she is now crying so have to go will be back later.