Never a stupid question just a stupid answer! That is really unfair when different people mark. There is no way they all see things I'm the same light.

Dh is a great father, but I really don't think he gives two hoots if he's at the birth or not! Lol. Sure he'd be there if he could and is a great support but I don't think he'll lose sleep over not being there. He is so practical, i think he sees me as just another cow birthing. Lmao.