Det, I'm with you - starting the plan the big 4-0. Holly, for my 21st (all those years ago) I just had all of my friends to a Thai restaurant and we had a big sit down banquet with drinks before. It was pretty low-key but everyone had a great time and I was able to talk to everyone as I kept it just to my closest friends.

With food, I do a combination of finger food and spoon food as Miss J doesn't get enough in by herself and gets cranky if she is too hungry but then also gets cranky if she isn't doing things herself. So for breakfast she has vegemite toast while I make her weetbix and then when she has had the toast I spoon feed her weetbix until she is full. Then she will help herself to the fruit bowl

The movie was great although the first cinema we went to lost power half way through the movie, G was devastated as we had to leave and get a refund. So I found another cinema, got the train home, got in the car and drove to the new one. We finally got to see it and G loved it.

Olive - sounds like a tooth!

Malyna - yay on being an aunty again!

I forgot who asked about night weaning (sorry) but I don't feed Miss J now from her night feed at about 7pm until she wakes in the morning - at the moment I am using 5.45 as the cutoff but I really want to stretch this out to 6am. However when I go back to work I will need to be up early so it's probably not a huge issue.