You are not taking over the thread with your woes. It is very serious and you need somewhere to talk. If it helps dd has eaten nearly all those foods, but not cola. It comes from having an older brother. No harm as long as they are not everyday foods.

Ellie-. I hope thingsxare settling for you

Here- J hasza perforated ear drum. E is being a typically challenging 20 month old. Still haven't managed to get them down for their immunisations.