You preggas, J?!?
Sorry I haven't been in - just been doing it tough lately.
Having said that, I really feel for you, BG. What a shock, both with E and DH. I am sorry that there are extra things to worry about with E's eyes, but you really don't know how technology will change in the coming years. They may well have some great developments in E's lifetime. And as for DH, that's such a pi$$er. I know how hard it is to be looking for work atm. Hoping you both are doing ok with it.
Nic, not sure what's happening with Aaron, but I hope that you (and he, obviously) are ok.