TM I would get an AVO/VRO if it was me, I would not be comfortable with him having Jade overnight either if it was me.

Dee, maybe custody issues are state gverened? Im not sure but I do remember something in the paper recently where they were letting fathers have joint custody of babies under 12 months old.

I would be ringing the utility companies and telling them you no lnger live there and dont want the bills in your name. They should know what to do - if he wont change them to his name then they get disconnected.