Hi Ubba - lovely to hear from you, your post cracked me up LOL - I only DTD for the same reason, toey DH and thought I'd better before he went elsewhere LOL (just kidding). Ruby and Amelia have the same sleeping pattern by the sound!

Re the expressor, I have the Medela Swing, cost me nearly $300!!!! I definitely think I struggle to fill Amelia up as she cries her heart out and continues searching so I have to give her a bottle and then she's happy. The first feed of the morning I seem to have enough and probably another day feed but come the late arvo and into the evening not so much. I'll persevere, I want to keep BF'ing as long as I can.