Ali- Thanks for that, I will borrow babywise from the library and see what I think. I too think there are too many bad vibes on formula feeding. I was talking to my nan the other day nd found out that she had TB when she was a kid so was unable to breastfeed because of it so had to FF her 3 babies. Im sure the formula back then was no where near what it is today and my dads still kickin'.

Snowy- Thanks, I will check out that book too!

Kymmy- O.M.G dont even talk to me about smelly farts, sometimes I think Ruby smells worse than DH I wouldnt be worried about Archie pooing every 2 days, as he is getting older his digestive tract is more developed and you only have to be grossed out every 2 days! BONUS

Natty- how is V going, wonder why her 'routine' has changed. She was going really well - maybe she just wants Mummy cuddles ?? Who knows..........

Had another really unsettled night with Ruby, she just wont sleep... Her day sleeps are about 40mins-1hr and she wakes 2-3 hrly over night. I am so sleep deprived its doing my head in. DH and DS come home today from camping, I cant wait cause I really miss them awwwww.

I might try and have a snooze on the couch while Ruby is fixed on the TV

Hope you are all well. xxx