Fi, you have done so well having all those people stay in your house for this long, as bad as it sounds i kinda get sick of DH when he's home for more than a fe3w weeks, i guess its coz im used to him not being her ALL the time, and when he gets time off he;s home 24\7 and it drives me batty, we all get into our little routine that works for us iguess.

afm, i havent given Miss A any formula (not even any top ups) in 2 days.. and both mornings (this morning and yesterday morning) she woke up at 2am BOTH days.. so im not sure if the formula has anything to do with it and if it does i might reconsider putting her back on it. ALSO the last 2 days been feeding her lots, all short feeds, like i was told to do (10-15mins max) and would have to do it both sides each feed, she was feeding almost every hour (this happened for 2 days *sigh* ) yesterday she was really grizzly and a little unsettled (nothing ajor just not herself) then i put her to bed at like 7.30pm 2 abd a bit hours later i expressed before i went to bed (trying to stimulate supply more than anything) and only got 25 freaking mls THATS IT!!!! i nearly cried no wonder my baby was sooky she was eating and getting nothing then when she woke at 2am i fed her both sides and she looking for more so i gave her the 25mls id expressed and she went to sleep after AGES... im just so torn. i text DH saying
{quote} "After 2 and a half hours of not feeding heri expressed and all i got was 25mls put of both sides.. no wonder she was sooky all day.. she was feeding like every hour. what am i supposed to do? have to keep bfing to bost my supply (which isnt happening)and if i give her a bottle it cuts into my failed attempts to boost my supply help me jon, should we do?im trying so hard, i need your help..."
and what was his reply? NOTHING!! i am soo.. urgh.. i dont even know what the word is, its like i need someone to tell me what to do "Stevie.. your doing it this way.. and thats whats happening.." but i get no support from him at all when it comes to this.
he doesnt want her FF but she just isnt getting enough from me... i feel like a yoyo going back and forth.. making a decision then changing my mind a million times its doing my freakin head in...
ok vent over LOL
Hope everyone else is having a better day
xx