Brydz - I think that the fact that you hardly know J etc is good enough reason for him not having him whilst you are at work or just having a Brydz Day. Putting Vinnie into care is what is BEST for you. I know you have '18 yrs' ahead of you but are you really going to tread on ice for all of that time? Can you speak to anyone in the legal world for advice? I'm not comfortable with my children being with my MIL anymore, so they don't go unless DH is working 10 minutes away whish is Fridays and Saturdays only so now she sees them on OUR terms. He takes them to her house and then goes back there for lunch and then brings them home. That is what is best for ME otherwise I would be worrying about them all day and turning myself inside out. I have known her since 1991!
Seriously Brydz, if I was closer I would take him in a heartbeat so you could have time for yourself to refresh, recharge, sleep, eat or lay down on the grass & watch the clouds float by. Hang in there matey.
HI to everyone else.
xxxxx
Last edited by Vixstar; March 10th, 2011 at 09:11 AM.
: spell check - GALORE! lol
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