I saw the thread on the tubal ligation syndrome, but I am just going to go on believing that won't happen to me lol. DH agrees with getting the snip in theory, but I know that if push comes to shove he will be very hesitant to do it - he has a massive needle phobia and needles near his man bits... I can see it just not happening and we would end up with another baby.

Trill, I don't know if we would have had more if they slept. The plan was 2 or 3. I am not really enjoying the stay at home gig, but perhaps if I had some time without kids hanging off me, if they would let me sleep in my own bed without hanging off me all night, then maybe it would be a bit more enjoyable? Have you got any lambies yet? I saw the first of the season the other day. Spring in in the air.

We were going to have a party, but then the IL's really wanted to come up but couldn't afford it and I didn't really want to bother with a party that costs heaps and W wouldn't really enjoy it because he just isn't a super social kid. So we paid for the IL's airfares - seems like a win for everyone (and FIL is a builder and we have lots of odd jobs...lol). We will still have a cake though. W is flip-flopping between a Strip Weathers cake and a Scarface Claw one.

Although, W seems to be getting more social in the last couple of weeks. At Kindy the other day he started a conversation with the girl next to him asking her the dolls name etc. And we were at McD's the other week and a toddler dropped his toy so W got it for him, then later some big kid was kicking the toddlers toy away so W stood between the big kid and the toy and said "that isn't yours!" and picked it up and gave it back to the little boy. Probably nothing the other kids haven't been doing for ages, but it is a big step for W.

After a week of Miss A thinking that 11pm is a suitable bedtime, I have both of them in bed asleep at 8pm tonight. Yay!!