Kel- thanx hun. I'm just not in the mood 2n. I swear to god mil & hubby are exact the same. The other day hubby & I had an argument about god knows wat, & then i said to hubby, u & and ur mum are exactly the same i don't give a **** wat u say & i don't give a **** wat ur mum says, he then said yeah off course you don't u just care about urself then i said well i'm gonna have to, cause u don't give a **** about me. Oh when we took Jonathan to get his pic with santa, we waited in line & hubby said that he wanted to go check something out & i'm like umm we are next, the people in front of us had a hard time cause their babies was crying and we were like waiting for nearly 10 mins, and then they gave up, i said to hubby no don't go because we r next and he said i will be quick and then i said to him look we came here for jonathan to get his pic taken at least u can do is stay for him, i know u don't give a **** about me, but at least give a **** for our baby and then i said oh yeah that's right u only give a **** about ur factory and he said yes i do that's right, i said to him u know wat get out of my face u make me sick. so he stayed after all that i swish he had just gone, we were making a scene, yes the factory to him comes first, but for me my family comes first. i had enough & if this is how we r going to be if we have a second baby i'm going to divorce him, i had enough i can't take it anymore, i can't cry anymore. i'm pretending to everyone i'm happy but i'm not, a few people know in my family, my sis is like just talk to him & i said to him i have and it's the same **** over and over. so to brag you about this i got fired up lol. I'm sorry that u are going through the same thing sweety

pixie- no i didn't have a great night