Hello Carmen and WELCOME!!! Yay!! I was thinking we were going to have an empty forum besides me and Spiddles soon but at least there is three of us! Mind you I do leave in a week!!

It is amazing how much time it takes! My DH hasnt really realised this even though he was home with me for the first week. He told someone at work today that he lets me sleep in on the weekends and I asked him what he meant by that because he has NEVER (lol) let me sleep in and catch up- I always take Ryley out on Sat morning so DH can sleep. His response was- well I made his bottles for the 5 a.m. feed on Sat and Sun morning! I think I might have to say to him that it would be sleeping in if he didnt just hand the bottle over and say- here you go and go back to sleep!!!

I am glad your DH is loving Luke Carmen. Dh and I had a weird start as he hasnt really helped out much at all and suprisingly doesnt always look to cuddle him etc when he comes home. For the experienced Mums on the board who read through here- when did your DH/P/F's actually start to be stoked?? I wonder if DH is still worried he wont know what to do or whether my DH just doesnt love Ryley as much as I thought he would? Or whether because I have love for Ryley shooting out my ears I expect that DH would too?? This situation really has made me upset in the last week or so coz I thought DH would be such an affectionate loving Dad- He said he wanted to be opposite to his Dad......

Hmm.. besides that though all is good and thanks Ambah for the advice. I suppose because he just keeps changing what he wants every day for the past week that I am getting confused because his first week was an eat sleep bliss!! hehehehe