Yael-OMG thanks sooo much for all the info...greatly appreciated. The cream you mentioned (Rectogesic) is the cream my dr has prescribed
I shall be getting it filled out first thing in the morning when DH pay hits the bank account! Im at my wits end, soooo much pain i cant stand it now more. I just want a quick fix...but its going to take time to heal. I just dont understand out i got it in the first place. I was NEVER constipsted before, during or after DD birth...then 3-4 weeks later it starting hurting....and it got worse and worse...now its at the point like u said.. passing glass. Also i cant PM you...can u email me the weblink? kimbaz@jumba.com.au

Fi-oh i wish i liked apricots...or even prunes....might help!! Im sure Hamish doesnt mind!

I sure hope the cream helps.....but all i can think of its gunna kill putting cream up....but if it works then ill give it a go...any thing has to be better then feeling like this....no one should be scared of the toilet...LOL

Thanks everyone for ur help and advice.....now i dont feel so alone.....it seems its pretty common after child birth?