Bec thanks ..... I was refitted by my OB but he said I was still the same size. BUT he did have a good poke around in there so he should have noticed if there was anything wrong. pushing stage was about an hour 15 from memory and no assisted delivery, just a NVD. I don't think it is too big a deal for DH, but he did say something about getting stuck on the rim of it once.... but at the moment I think any nookie at all would be gratefully received LOL
thanks again love mwah x