Tan you hit the nail on the head with us women being too critical and men not being as fussy as we think (or we should say "good" men).

Charly, I'm glad to see you are more at peace with yourself. As Barb said, it's not the BF as much as it's pregnancy and age. Surgery is such a temporary, risky, painful and expensive option. I say we all accept ourselves and like Manta said, wear our badges of honour. I have a different issue in that mine were small before children and now they are even smaller but oh well, a small price to pay!