I think it is your choice. Whatever you choose then as long as your happy with it it shouldn't matter. Personally i think going on the pill is just like using condoms and you can be lazy with either you can forget to take a pill and fall pregnant like i did with my first bub or you can be using condoms have a couple to drink or just simply forget to put it on. After my bub is due i will be using condoms until i have stopped Breast Feeding then we might talk about the pill after that. But i will tell you this now DP has another thing coming if he thinks he is getting anywhere near my bits for atleast a month or 6 weeks hahahaha. Good luck hun if you want to use condoms then do it in the end it is up to you anyway.