I'm happy to learn from any of them. I just wont worship anything.
I think this is what it comes down to for me as well.
The humanism stuff seems to provide the philosophy and belief side of it for me but from what I'm seeing now they're a little too intellectual, independent and impersonal when it comes to the community support side of it, if that makes sense. Or maybe it's that they are just far too big a community to provide the sort of personal support and relationships I think I'm looking for.