I just did it too. Turns out I am UU/ neo-pagan. Not a surprise, though the difinition for UU is murky. Bit of this, bit of that. Like my 'beliefs'

I hope you find a space to belong. It may be you need a few spaces. Just as one person in your life cannot provide all your needs, one community can't either. The humanists may be more intellectual than nurturing, but if you also find a nurturing space you may find the balance you need. Reach out and give things a go.

You will find where you belong. It will just take a bit of trial and error.