Your own Mortality - Does it worry you sometimes?

[Babyluv]

Yep I think like this. I worry about it because I don't want to leave my DD, I feel like she really needs me. If I weren't here she would end up in fulltime childcare and not have my love every day.

[*Danni*]

Yes I have thought about that at times. Thinking about how much my little angel depends on me and how I just want to be around for him until he is all grown up with grandchildren of his own hehe. I absolutely adore my son and I know that no one would be able to look after him or love him like I can. The thought of something happening to me scares me so much and we are hopeless in that we have still got our unfinished will here because we have NO ONE we would feel comfortable leaving our baby with if something happened to us so that's a real concern and something that deeply bothers me. I just am hoping that the universe keeps me here long enough to fulfill my motherly duties and raise my baby into a strong and happy person as I still have a long long time ahead of me which I have such an impact and importance in my child/rens life.


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[*Danni*]

Yes, I do. The thought of never seeing my kids again or the thought of them crying for me or being hurt or upset and not being there for them makes me cry every time I think about it.

Absolutely... Same here


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[Just Me]

It's odd really, I don't worry about me dying but I worry about DH dying or the kids dying. I have no idea how I would go on if either of those things were to happen or how the kids would cope if those things were to happen.

I guess I don't worry so much about myself because I won't be here anymore so that would be DH's thing to deal with. I don't like the idea of my kids losing either parent and hurting, but if DH was to die or they were to lose a sibling, that is the pain I would have to deal with, if that makes sense.