you should never be upset with yourself for needing a D&C
I agree completely! It can take days or weeks to miscarry naturally. The fact that you haven't miscarried naturally already just goes to show how strongly your body wants to hold onto this pregnancy. Your mind and body want this baby deeply, it's just devastating that this time around a perfect little body for your "baby in waiting" hasn't been created. My thoughts are with you during this really difficult time ♥