sorry you have to go through this. cant help at all with referrals or test etc, but i do think its a good idea to tell your family you are taking a break. even if your not. there is enough stress and pressure in what you are going through, without the added expectations of others hanging over your head. and usually they just want whats best for you because they know its what you want, but it can mean extra pressure.

GL in the future hunny. sending lots of babydust and stickyvibes your way!