Hi Boble,

I am so sorry to hear of your losses. I agree that you should get the family to back off - it is enough to go through on your own without any external pressures. I stopped telling people what was happening after my first m/c and didn't tell anyone when I was preggers with DD until about 14 weeks.

I am glad you have managed to get some testing done. I was told that in most cases they won't find anything but I think it helps to know as much as you can, and it will also give you more confidence going into another pregnancy.

Good luck!