I'm so sorry for your losses. A LP of 8-9 days is a worry. I think alot of time we have an instinct for these things that some doctors just ignore. After my m/c, I had BT during my next pregnancy. I started spotting 5-6 weeks and my progesterone was low. I started progesterone suppositories and did not m/c. I have a LP of 10-11 days and figure maybe there's not enough progesterone, maybe there is. It doesn't hurt to take it JIC and if it prevents a m/c for that reason, then great. If there's something else wrong with bub, it won't prevent a m/c but at least I'll know I've done all I could.
Tash~ With both my other losses I started spotting very early on in my PG but this time everything was going along great than everything so quickly fell apart on us this was the first time we had gotten a HB the other 2 angels never recorded a HB at all. And to top it off the DR I had to see yesterday tells me if you need someone to blame for your MC blame your partner as this could be his fault for your recurrent MC. He was just a heartless young quake I never wish to see ever again and I can't wait for me GP to come back to work again.
Ouch - that's awful. What a horrible thing to say!
It does remind me. DH and I both had karotyping (chromosome analysis) to check if there was a genetic reason for m/c. Something like a balanced translocation can cause recurring m/c. It's an expensive test but may be something worth looking at (about $400 pp). Did you have bub tested?
Im so sorry for your losses. My first angel had passed before we saw the heartbeat but we heard a perfectly healthy heartbeat just two weeks before I lost the second. Its so hard and Im glad you are getting tested.
How dare that Dr blame your partner! Im sure he is going through enough!
Clairesmummy- Can you find out what test came back abnormal? My advise is to get copies of all the tests you have had done and keep them for your records, and take them to your FS.
Hun, your doctor is an *******. I would swap doctors hun.
I understand how upset and confusing it is to see a HB and then have them pass away shortly after. I seen lily's heartbeat 5 days before she passed, and everything looked normal with her (turns out everything was normal) but i didn't know she had gone until 3 weeks later.
Hun, i think you just need lots of right now, especially after your horrible doctors comments, and i think we're all happy to give them to you
Hope you get a good nights rest and peaceful dreams xoxox
hun big hugs from me also, i am appalled the dr said that to you, he should be encouraging you to rely on your partner for support not suggesting blaming each other for something you have no control over, im so angry to hear that happened to you
I know I have posted this many times before but it was sent to me during some of my lowest of lows with my losses it helped me to reflect to take a step back I dont know if it will help you but it has a wonderful meaning behind
Frankly, if the truth be known, I think God has singled me out for a special treatment. I think God meant for me to build a thirst for a child so strong and so deep that when that baby is finally placed in my arms, it will be the longest, coolest, most refreshing drink I've ever known.
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I know I have posted this many times before but it was sent to me during some of my lowest of lows with my losses it helped me to reflect to take a step back I dont know if it will help you but it has a wonderful meaning behind
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