Aww sweetie! I'm so sorry. Don't feel silly, it was a baby and that's all that matters. It doesn't matter if it was your first or subsequent, it was your baby and your hurting. It's not too late to tell your closest friends! I'm sure they'll comfort you, forgetting that it happened a small while ago, because it's still upsetting you. But it doesn't go away, so I don't see why they wouldn't support you for many months to come. BB and the members on here are very helpful and comforting & will help you get through it (: TC
I am so so sorry for your loss. It is defnitely to heartbreaking to be going through alone.
I think you should tell someone close to you so at least you can grieve somewhat openly. There is no reason to hide it just as you wouldn't "hide" the passing of any other loved one. Just becuase your friends and family didn't know you had a baby, doesn't mean you didn't nor lessen your need to grieve properly. It will just keep eating away at you darl.... you have to let it out!
Sorry, just my opinion but I have gone through it all to many times. Taking to your DH is defnitely not enough.
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I'm so sorry. Don't feel silly, it was a baby and that's all that matters. It doesn't matter if it was your first or subsequent, it was your baby and your hurting. It's not too late to tell your closest friends! I'm sure they'll comfort you, forgetting that it happened a small while ago, because it's still upsetting you. But it doesn't go away, so I don't see why they wouldn't support you for many months to come. BB and the members on here are very helpful and comforting & will help you get through it (: TC
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