Oh Telly tubby,
I do understand how you feel as i went trhough the same experience.
The only person who knew was my BF and ironically she was the first person I told when our angel died and the last person to remake contact. I told my mum the night we found out on the scan our bean had died. She then told my grandmother and my father and the rest of the fmaily .... Looking back I was angry as I told her not to tell anyone but the amount of support I luckily receieved was a huge blessing. I sort of wish I had told them all to begin with that I was UTD. ( i wanted to keep it a secret till 16wks)
My hubby didn't tell his parents and then I 'found out' that my SIL had M/C shortly after me. HIs famiy were very upset as was I as I had asked god to give our baby ( helathyto them as they had been trying so long to conceive). I was unable to handle them giving support and needed it from them as well and gave in and told them not because i felt i was missing out or wanting the attention but i was in hosp for 3 weeks and was sick of MIL telling me about it but she thinking I was in Hosp for my diabetes ...NOT! so i told them and then upse4t them even further but they have supported me and i needed that...... Ironically my BF has steered clear of me I really needed her to help me through by feeling normal not avoid me

I am always here if you need to chat...
Em