Clare,

Sorry for your losses. My heart goes out to you ectopic pregnany is scary and painful.

I had an ectopic pregnancy a few years back(2003) It ruptured and I lost my tube but not the ovary. I only had keyhole surgery, but blew up like a balloon and then got really badly constipated. The end result was(gross) that I resorted to a home enema kit. I already had two healthy daughters so I sadly decided that I wasn't meant to have any more children. Last August I got so nauseous that I had to stop smoking, so I did a home preg test. To my surprise I was pregnant. I was so scared that it would be ectopic! I had 3 ultrasounds b4 they found the little one. James Owen was born on 16th April, he is lovely. There is life after ectopic pregnancy just give yourself time to heal emotionally and physically. Also its good to go and have yourself checked to see if the remaining tube has a blockage which can often be treated. Hang in there love

Alison