Thank you so much. I think the hardest thing has been coping with the loss of the baby and the apparent loss of our chances of conceiving naturally and being referred to IVF, and of course healing from surgery at the same time. I am getting better bit by bit and trying hard to be positive.
I do however feel like everything in my life right now is defined by this, revolves around this experience. I don't feel happy, i feel flat and sad. I find it hard because I am a control freak and yet am now totally out of control of so many factors and scared of what IVF will involve.
Anyway, will keep moving forward and trying to be optimisitic.
Thanks again for the support. I know so many others on here have suffered loss also.