Hi Tei
Just want to reiterate what megsmum said i think it is so wonderful that you are doing this research. I had ectopic last year i was only 7 weeks, and yes we definately need a seperate area in hospitals, i recovered from my surgery in the maternity ward which truly broke my heart one little girl came skipping down the corrider asking everyone to come and see her new baby sister which was totally awesome but not for me at that moment. Sorry i dont know if thats something that you can influence but something i feel strongly about.
I guess the biggest thing is just to say im sorry this has happened that was all i wanted and a hug of course but you get so many at least you know you can get pregnant, at least your here to tell the story, its early days at least you werent to far along and so the list goes on the thing is you already know all that stuff and people saying it over an over drives you insane. yes..... i think sorry is good and ask if they want to talk about it, for me that would be it.
Here Here Catrionalee education is so important and i think its too late when you are already in the situation to be hearing statistics !!!!