The hardest thing.

[NaeNae]

I wanted to pm you but for some reason couldn't so I will just post this anyway.

Part and parcel of being a good mother is knowing when to let go. It is the hardest thing to do and the guilt and grief can be overbearing.

Our circumstances are different but I wanted to share this with you, we switched off our little girls life support when she became very sick. No matter how we felt all we have ever wanted is to provide our children with a good quality of life. She was not going to get this and the treatments were not helping, prolonging her suffering would have been selfish.

Everyday I look at her picture and know that we did the very best we could under the circumstances. I often wish we had have acted sooner so she was not subjected to what she was.

You did the right thing for you and your baby.

If things get too tough, seek help - professional help. There are many support groups out there professionals trained to help guide you through this.

Be kind to yourself

Nae x

[~breeze~]

I'm so sorry you had to go through what you have, you were so brave to make that decision & think of your DD (I hope that came out right)

I just wanted to let you know that you shouldn't be feeling guilty, I cant imagine the pain you're going through right now.... mentally & physically