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thread: Help! I'm lost.

  1. #19
    Registered User

    Oct 2007
    Brisbane
    320

    Hannah - phone the hospital and ask if you can still get the u/s pics. Trust me, if they can they will get them for you and they will understand.
    Whatever you need to do to get through this is OK.
    Hugs
    Adele

  2. #20
    Registered User

    Aug 2008
    Gold Coast, Australia
    8

    Hi Hannah,

    I know what you are going thru, I thought I was nearly 10 weeks pregnant but lost our baby at 7 weeks 4 days.My thoughts are with you x

  3. #21
    Registered User

    Aug 2008
    Adelaide
    1,488

    Thanks kittycat. I'm so sorry for your loss . If you need to talk at all I am here. I wish it weren't so, but our stories are so similar.

  4. #22
    Registered User

    Jul 2004
    Perth
    1,864

    Hi,

    I think you are probably indecisive because you are grieving and thats ok.

    Allow yourself to grieve, its very important.

    Try talking to a counsellor if you can. Otherwise talk with your DH.

    When you have had a bit more time you will know more what you want to do.

    I spent the first month pretty much crying (19wk loss) and then i knew exactly what i wanted to do and went for it. I was pregnant again a few months later.

    Its important you allow yourself to feel the feelings you have though. Very important.

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