Pookie, I'm so sorry for the loss of your little bubby. It is the worst thing in the worst and you and your DH will need to help each other through. Only time can help - no words are good enough and you need to do whatever it is YOU need to get through this time.

I had my ectopic pregnancy 7 years ago, followed by 2 miscarriages. I spent weeks curled up in bed with my doona pulled over my head, not wanting to see or talk to anyone. Although I now have my beautiful girl there was no glee or excitement for me through my pregnancy with her - just terror, stress and anxiety. It is so sad that there are so many of us that don't know what I'm sure is total joy at being pregnant. You will know if/when you are ready to try again and you WILL find the strength to get through it.

Best of luck to you and your DH.