laurie--I'm so, so sorry for your losses! I had my first son at the age of 19 with no complications. When we decided to ttc baby #2, I went in for my routine appt. when I was almost 3 mo's. They didn't hear the heartbeat, so they did an ultrasound. I had what was called a blighted ovum, where the sac developed, but the baby didn't. I had to have a D&C. We tried again a few mo's later. I took a hpt as soon as I was late, got a bfp. I m/c the next week. We tried again a few mo's after that, and the same thing happened again! After that, nothing. Fast forward 5 years, meet someone, fall in love, decide to ttc. It takes 3 mo's after stopping birth control, but pregnancy goes great--no problems whatsoever. Now fast forward 7 years (age 33). 6 mo's after stopping birth control, I get pg. (Jan. 08) Two days before my 13 wk. appt. (Mar.) I start spotting. Not too bad at first, but it didn't stop. I end up m/c on the 5th,the day before my b-day. It's been 1 mo. today. I just wanted to let you know my story since I had a healthy pregnancy, then 3 m/c, then another healthy pg., then another m/c. Although, mine weren't as far along as yours--that must have been terrible! Again, I'm so sorry for your losses! I would definitely have your thyroid checked. My dr. took 7 tubes of blood after my last m/c so that they could make sure there wasn't something genetically wrong with me that would make me have so many m/c, but all those tests came back normal. If you feel like your dr. isn't being as attentive to your needs and the needs of your future child, you should definitely try to find a new one! I think I may end up being in the same boat as you. My dr. told us at our last appt. (when he told us we were m/c) that before we decide to ttc again to let him know because he wanted to put me on progesterone and a baby aspirin a day. He specifically said before we start again. I called him the other day to get the prescription, and he tells me that after I get pg. again he'll start me on the progesterone! He' s trippin'! He can't seem to make up his mind! He also wouldn't give me an u/s when I went in for my 8 wk. appt., and when I had my u/s at what was supposed to be 13 wks., they said the baby stopped growing at 8 wks.!!! I think I should definitely be looking for a new dr. too! I really hope time helps to heal your heart--I'll be thinking of you and praying for you! Good luck with whatever you decide!