Male struggling with m/carriage

[*las*]

I'm so sorry for your loss.

DH is currently going through this, I had m/c #3 and 4 last year, the 4th one being the hardest for the course of treatment I chose to help bring on the loss. They were also IVF cycles, it hit me hard, but with some time, I was ready to move ahead. DH on the other hand is really struggling, for the loss of so many pregnancies and because he feels so helpless while I'm going through it. What you are feeling is not only normal, but understandable.

Give yourself some time to grieve, time with your wife and child and take each day as it comes.

[Baby Angels]

Completely normal. I lost my babies 11 days ago and only now am i thinking..... well maybe.

This hurts. hurts like hell. But its One Day At A Time.

None of it makes sense and never will. They are gone. They are not alone Tens of thousands go each year. Most of which are never heard about.

Just Breath and focus on One Day At A Time. You and your wife will get through this, just as my husband and I will , just as thousands before us have.