Hi there neverumind, I am so sorry for the loss of your precious son. You are so wonderful for trying to help your wife at this very traumatic time of your lives, you have both been through a terrible experience which is so hard to understand. You need to hang in there & just be there for your wife, keep communicating together and hopefully you will both find the strength to somehow face each new day.......

Take care of each other and know you are in my thoughts.
Big hugs to you & your wife, Shell xo