Stick with it neverumind.

She may not know what she wants. I know I love my DH very much but am not sure what I want at the moment. I think all I want is for him to hug me and hold me and tell me he loves me. But that 's just me. Maybe your wife just wants some space - but this doesn't mean that she doesn't love you and it also doesn't mean that you should give up.

Do the woman thing (like I do keeping one eye on my favourite TV show and the other on the wondering toddler). Keep one eye on her and give her space if that's what she wants. Just be there when she finally decides she wants a hug.

LP.